August 14, 2011
Bryne Palmer
Better Than Facebook Friends
Philippians 2:19-30
-Proverbs 17:17- -Proverbs 18:24- -Proverbs 27:6- If we choose to follow Christ with everything we’ve got, that includes our friends. Friends have a major influence on your life.
1. Fair-weather Friends Vs. 21
When you wanna know what a good friend looks like Paul will show what a bad friend looks like. Vs. 21 a fair-weather friend only sticks around when times are good. A true friend sticks by always. (Paul was in jail for two years and can speak from experience about friendship)What a good friend doesn’t look like: Me monster, fun in the moment when it’s what they want to do, they don’t care about others. A good friend is someone like Timothy who helps you in your walk. Fair-weather friends will draw you away and make your walk harder.
2. A Faithful Friend VS 22-27
Surround yourself with these people.
a) Genuine concern for you
Your wellbeing and your walk with Christ.
b) Friends will serve with you VS 22
They go through stuff with you.
c) They have a common goal with you
Your main goal should be Christ. Don’t disown the world but be careful what/who influences you.
d) They will go the extra mile for you.
They will take time for you, they want to see good things for you.
We want to influence the world and out worldly friends but we don’t want/need to influence us. The kinds of people Paul had in his life are the kinds of people we should have too.
3. Fellowship Vs. 28-29
This should be a joyous thing, having a desire for fellowship and these people. Paul’s friendship blueprint is Jesus.